Straight sex chats
(Being a decent human being accounts for the other 110 percent*.) Because if you aren't showing up in kink spaces—online or IRL—your fellow kinksters won't be able to find or bind you. "The leather scene is a diverse place with tons of outlets and avenues, depending on how you navigate your life and learn," said Amp from Watts the Safeword (wattsthesafeword.com), a kink and sex-ed website and You Tube channel."When I was first getting started, I found a local leather contingent that held monthly bar nights and discussion groups that taught classes for kinksters at any level.It's been tough—my ex is a great guy, and causing him pain has been a loss on top of my own loss, but I know I did the right thing.Among other things, our sex life was bland and we had infrequent sex at best. He says he's open to my terms—open/fuck-buddy situation—but things have quickly become relationship-ish.So fuck this guy, HOPEFUL, on your own terms—but don't be too quick to dismiss the possibility of an LTR.
If you're a tad shy and work better online, these contingents have Facebook groups or Fet Life pages you can join.
We should also remember that no one is clairvoyant and that someone can hurt us without intending to.
But there's no intimate human connection, sexual or otherwise, that doesn't leave us open to hurting or being hurt.
(Also: There are tons of gay guys out there into spanking, SPANK.
So if you aren't finding any, I can only conclude that you aren't looking.) I'm wondering about the application of the term "bear" to a straight man, such as myself.